Things every wife wants in her husband. Your wife wants you to love her unconditionally, be her number one, be her leader, compliment and appreciate her and support her purpose. Just like every husband wants their wife to love and respect them, your wife also wants similar or mostly the same things from you.
Becoming that husband every wife would desire to have, may not completely be a walk in the park, but you’re definitely going to come up roses! How’s that possible? Treat her fairly, let your wife be your partner and not a roommate, and love her unconditionally.
Your wife is a gift, so your understanding of this can go a long way to the way you can treat your wife and make your wife desirable of you. Your wife is a good thing. The bible says that when you find a wife, you find a good thing. Proverbs 18:22. Come to think of it, aside from intimacy and childbearing; you could help yourself with regular chores, which include but are not limited to doing your laundry, dishes, fixing your room. So why burden her? Let’s discuss 5 things every wife wants in her husband.
Be Her Leader: Your wife wants you to lead her. She wants you to be the leader in the home. Ephesians 5:23 says that for the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. She wants you to lead her spiritually. Your wife wants to see a man who is submitted under God’s authority.
Empathetic: Empathy is the ability to understand and share in another’s emotions, and it forms the bedrock of emotional intimacy. Wives seek husbands who possess the capacity to empathize, who can empathetically tune into their thoughts and feelings without judgment or defensiveness. An empathetic husband offers his wife solace in times of distress, validation in moments of doubt, and companionship in moments of joy. By cultivating empathy, husbands deepen their emotional connection with their wives, fostering a bond that transcends the superficial and endures through the trials of life.
Supportive: A supportive husband is a pillar of strength for his wife. Wives desire husbands who stand by their side through thick and thin, offering unwavering support in their endeavors and challenges. Whether it’s pursuing career goals, dealing with family issues, or facing personal struggles, knowing that their husband has their back boosts a wife’s confidence and resilience. By being her cheerleader and confidant, a supportive husband helps his wife navigate life’s ups and downs with courage and grace. My fellow men, a help of hand here and there, it could be you helping out with the chores while she takes care of the kids or the other way. That little kind gesture could be “those little magical things” that swoops her, making her crave for you even more.
Affectionate: One of the most cherished qualities in a husband is affection. Wives crave love and affection from their partners, whether it’s through kind words, loving gestures, or physical touch. Simple acts like holding hands, giving hugs, or expressing appreciation can go a long way in making a wife feel cherished and valued. Being affectionate towards your wife strengthens the emotional connection between partners and creates a warm and loving atmosphere at home.
Committed: Last but not least, wives want husbands who are committed to the relationship. Marriage requires dedication, effort, and a willingness to work through challenges together. A committed husband prioritizes his marriage and makes it a priority in his life. He is loyal, faithful, and steadfast in his love and devotion towards his wife, even during difficult times. By demonstrating unwavering commitment, a husband reassures his wife of his love and strengthens the foundation of their marriage.
Ladies, if your spouse is not there yet, do not fight him. Godly wisdom and humility, always ask him if there’s anything he would like you to help him with? Especially when you see him doing or struggling with some work, one day, he will definitely not only ask to help you in turn but will become all the help you could have ever asked or needed.
The qualities every wife desire in her husband – affection, support, respect, empathy and commitment – are essential for building a strong, loving, and enduring marital bond. By embodying these qualities, husbands can nurture a relationship that thrives on mutual love, trust, and happiness, ensuring the well-being and fulfillment of both partners.
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (NIV)
Peace and Blessings
Martin
Chandy is a Wife and a Mom who Loves God and people. Love ❤️ Marriage blogger sharing lil bits of her life and hoping to inspire you. Chandy is passionate, creative and love ministering to women. Chandy is a certified relationship and marriage coach. She lives with her husband and three kids in Atlanta, GA